so ive liked this guy on and off for like 2 years, and he has too. the only problom is i always like him when he doesnt like me and he always likes me when i dont like him. but this time, i think we finnally got it right, but its hard to tell. hes really really shy, but he flirts with me all the time. all my friends jeep telling me that he deffinatly likes me, and i think he might, but i dont want to say it and then have it not be true. and i can never really tell cuz hes really shy and hes not the type of guy to ask out a girl unless hes sure she likes him and he doesnt make the first moves most of the time either. but he knows i like him... so i dont know what to do.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Ask_Anything answered Monday October 4 2004, 9:55 pm: wow, i know someone that is just like that too. if you've always considered this guy [2 years as you said], then you must see something in him that you keep wanting to come back to. ive gone through the same feelings before too. it's hard with guys that are super shy, because you never know what's going on in their heads.. ;) if you feel that you two have finally clicked at the right time, then you should definitly just tell him to his face or if you are too shy- then online, phone whatever. that way he hears it from you, not someone else who could have their facts wrong. if that doesnt get him going- then defintly dont be afraid to help him make the first moves by asking you out. basically guide him through the process.. it's kind of hard to explain, but he'll get it right- just give it time. it might be hard- but things will eventually work out, if they were meant to be. love sucks sometimes, but you just haveta let it run it's toll no matter how confusing or long it takes. he'll have to come out of his shell sooner or later, just let him know you'll be there when he does. =] -ask_anything [ Ask_Anything's advice column | Ask Ask_Anything A Question ]
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