with this guy.. like him a lot, hes a senior and im a softmore(sorry, cant spell) anyways... i want a long term, he wants a long term, but hes either going to go straight to work or go to college, so i dunno if i should stay with him, bc im def falling 4 him and him 4 me, please help me the best u can, thanks
15, female
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xSunshin3x answered Saturday October 2 2004, 9:40 am: This relationship sounds pretty serious and it seems like you both really like each other. You definately dont want to lose the relationship. If he does end up goin to work or college the best thing you can do is keep in touch as much as possible. Maybe you guys should take a break while he figures out what he wants to do and when he's made a decision see whether it would be best to get back together or still take time apart. If you guys do take time apart you can still keep in touch and see each other as much as possible. And if you dont take time apart then try your best to work around the issues with him leaving. It seems like you guys really want this to work so I'm pretty sure if yall try and work hard enough everything will be okay. Hope I helped! :-) [ xSunshin3x's advice column | Ask xSunshin3x A Question ]
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