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This has probably been asked soo much, but here goes..
There's these two guys, one, we'll call him Jim. & the other we'll call Bob. Well, i met Jim thru a mutual friend. And ever since i met him i thought he was soo hot, i got to know him, and have liked him ever since.. he's also said he's interested in me, but some other girls as well.. Where as Bob, well.. it's complicated. But i think i love him. i'm not IN love with him.. but i have liked him for soo long.. its almost crossed the 'like' line, you know? :S I went out with him in like.. grade 6 (i'm in the 10th grade now! :P) but it was just one of those middle school things, you know? So i've been good friends with Bob since i was 8, but have only known Jim for 6 months or so, and also i don't get to see him that often, because he doesn't go to my school. I like them both, but i think most of my feelings for Jim are because he's soo eye catching, as shallow as that sounds. And Bob, well like i said.. i love him, and we're so close, which is why i think we could have something great.. but i'm worried to ask him out, because i wouldnt want to screw up what we have now, and plus, i'm almost positive he doesn't feel the same way about me. I am soo lost. Please help. I'll rate good :)
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I think that you should pick Bob because you have known him longer then Jim, you both are really close, he isn't the type that likes alot of girls at once like Jim, and you also said it your self you and Bob could have something great. About asking him out you can ask him out as a friend and then see what happens but if you would like to see if he likes you more then a friend you are going to have to give him some little hints that you would like to be more then friends and see what will happen.
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Well lets see, so 'Bob' you have known for lets say ever, adn you love him adn i get what you are saying and all but you arent sure if he feels teat way about you, soo maybe you should tlak to him and find out what could possible become of you to, and I also have been in a situation where you are worried about losing your friendship or having it change, adn relaly its a 50/50 deal, becuz it all depends on how much effort you put in it, and if you are willing to risk that for the chance at something more then a friendship, and as for 'Jim' its kinda hard to go out with someone when they are liken other girls, so if you were to start somehting with him, make sure there is nothing between him and other girls. Well thats all i can relaly tell ya for now, but let me know how everything works out, you can always e-mail me!
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I pick that. Bob. It sounds like your relationship with him is deeper, instead of just a nice guy that's hot. But you just have to follow your heart and do what you want. Just make sure he knows how you feel.
~Laura~
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this or that..i pick that
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