Question Posted Wednesday September 29 2004, 10:03 pm
My boyfriend and I have been together for a while and have made out and he has felt me up. We are both ready for the next step, which is fingering. He wants to really bad, but I've never been fingered before! I know I should shave, but how can I do it so it will be smooth and not rough or anything? Also, how do I know for sure I don't smell down there? I would be so embarrased if he fingered me and I smelled. What should I do about all this?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? Siren_Cytherea answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 10:58 pm: Well, firstly, make sure YOU are ready for this step. Your boyfriend may be, but that doesn't mean you are, or that you have to be. If you aren't, tell him. But, if you wanna give it a shot, go for it.
You don't have to shave all your pubic hair. I mean, it's your choice. I don't shave all mine 'cause I honestly don't have the patience to deal with the stubble...Lol.
You do realize that there is a natural sort of smell down there, right? You can't not smell...that's unnatural...But it's not like a bad stink, really. It's just a human smell. Sorta kinda.
However, if he's fingering you, I seriously doubt his face is going to be down there. If he tries that, tell him to kiss you. It'll distract him - and you, lol.
Just relax and enjoy it. Lol.
Hope this helped!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
vickiooos answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 10:41 pm: first off.. you should make sure you're ready for this. I mean even though this isn't sex.. it's still a big deal to many girls. and you should always make your first experiences.. be they kissing, frenching, making out etc.. special.
now.. it is true.. there is a natural odor there and i don't really think there's much you can do to change that.
The most basic thing i can think of is to either wax it (major ow) or shave it. I'd go with shaving. You don't really have to; but if you want to or your boyfriend wants you to then that would be the best choice. [ vickiooos's advice column | Ask vickiooos A Question ]
penguinxown answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 10:18 pm: Everyone 'smells' down there , Vagina does have a scent if you noticed at all. So its only natural to have a smell scent.
If you want to save your pussy, just shave it by using a cream and a shaver..jsut be careful. You really dont need to shave it but i guess if you boyfriends want that, well theres my advice.
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