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This is really sad...
Dear Leslie,
I just saw that you had an advice column and was wondering if you could help me out with this. Me and this girl became friends about a year ago and I knew her boyfriend. Her boyfriend went to the same school as me, but wasn't in my class so we didn't see eachother all too much. Well, about a month ago my friend got extremely mad at me over something ridiculuosly small. She saw her boyfriend and I hugging and made her opinion then and there that it was more than just a "friend-hug," which it wasn't. He told me about something personal in his family and was very upset about it and just needed a little hug. Well, now my friend thinks I like her boyfriend and her boyfriend like me, which is totally not true. I want to tell her the whole story, but she has blocked me from the internet and never returns my calls. She avoids me in every way possible. She was one of my best friends. I miss her alot and I just want her back in my life. Do you have any suggestions??
Signed, a sad friend.
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Lucky for you since I went through the same thing not too long ago. Except in my story I actually did do stuff with my friend's boyfrend, only before I knew her, and when she found out, she started ignoring me in the same way your friend is. y friend was very close to me too. I think the most honest answer I could give you would be to tell her boyfriend to explain everything to her and if she still doesn't believe, then she wasn't that good of a friend in the first place. See, friendship is all about love, forgiveness, and trust. If your friend trusted you enough, she would still be talking to you right now. If your friend loved you enough, even if that hug was more than just a friend hug, then your friend should have enough love for you to FORGIVE you. Maybe not right away. Sure it's going to take some time, but...better late than never..right? Stay strong.
Leslie
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