Last year I started to like a kid...who told me he had liked me since 5th grade ( we were in 8th grade). It was weird because I never thought I'd like him but I did. Anyways, over the coarse of those years, he asked me out and I said no because he was pretty weird looking in 6th grade but in 8th he just got so good looking.
Well we talked a lot during the time I liked him, and he told me he liked me. But we always fought because his ex kept coming into the picture and talking to him. It seems like whenever someone else likes him, she has to start talking to him which really pissed me off. I never said anything to her though because I don't really do that. Anyways while we were fighting this one time, he said to me "do you know how many times I just wanted to get away from it all and be with you?" And he kept telling me he liked me but never asked me out and I didn't know why.
Then to top it all off, he goes out with this totally ugly girl which really made me feel like shit. I cried for ever because I really liked him and still do. I don't know what to do about it anymore. I try not to like him and like other people, but it feels like untill I get another boyfriend, Ill still feel the same for him and I know he doesnt feel anything anymore. He says that he didn't ask me out because he was afraid that everything he did, was going to make us fight, or me make fun of him. He says I make fun of people all the time. I told him that I don't mean to because I really don't. About a month ago, I was talking to him online, and told him how much I liked him. And then he goes on away message. I was like what the hell? Im so broken up inside and he doesn't even know. I don't know what to do or say to him without sounding like a corny freak. I want to show him that I'll change for him. What should I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xxhotsexycutiexx answered Sunday September 26 2004, 6:57 pm: hi, wow...omg...thats a very sad story...to tell you the truth i wont lie and say "omg gurl i feel ur pain" cuz seriously no one does feel ur pain unless they went through this...i totally understand what you're saying...and i'm like wow...god damn...if i was you though..i would try to talk to him face to face....so he couldnt escape you...tell him how u really feel on his face...and tell him what you wrote me....tell him how it all started tell him...how you see things...tell him that u like him a lot...and everything...mention to him that if he doesnt feel the same to just tell you and that you would leave him alone...and seriously if he says that just leave him alone....but if he feels the same way then tell him u'll do everything's possible to b wit him :) i bet everything will b better...hmm i dont kno wut else to tell you but give this thing a shot...u never kno it might work...and if it doesnt dont worry gurl...just try to forget and hang out wit friends...meet new ppl...and just live life like there's no tomorrow ;) hope everything will b better ;) xoxo effy
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