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Hey, i'm 15 and a junior in high school. soo.. my problem is that i like this guy which i have for the past two years. i know he likes me to, the only thing is that his parents are was strict and wont let him date. Also i am old than him..by less than a year but i am in two grades higher just because thats how it worked out. he said his parents wont let him date till he's 18 well that wont be till i'm about a sophomore in college. but i really do like him and sometimes i try to tell myself its not worth it. he's my best friends cousin, and i've never told her i liked him even though i really do. i'm not sure whether i should give up on him and try to find a way to like someone else, or just wait it out. also do you think i should tell my friend? i'm scared it'll be wierd. okay any advice greatly appreciated!
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Hey! Aww.. well, I think you should tell your friend you do like him because what if she finds out by someone else that you like him. It would just sound better coming from you than someone else. Just sit her down and just tell her the truth, just be like "Well, you're my best friend and you know how I've met your cousin before right? Well, I know he's not aloud to date until he's 18, but I just wanted to tell you before anyone else did, but I like him..." Just say something like that and that you dont' want things weird between you two, you just wanted to tell her before someone else did and it just felt right telling her. But, as for the guy, you should try talking to him and seeing what you should do. Just be like "Well, I know your parents are strict and you know I like you, but I would have to wait til you're 18 and I'll be a sophomore in college when you turn 18. Should I just wait until then? Or should I go out with other people and just have fun and then when you turn 18, we can date? I mean what do you want us to do?" Just say something like that so you do know what to do. But, maybe you should just wait til you two are 18 and he can date without sneaking around and stuff. But, just talk to him about it and see what you two should do. I hope this helps and good luck hun. If you need anything else, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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