Question Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 9:09 pm
Hi, well first off i am 15, turning 16 years old in a few months and a female. I have never had a boyfriend, nor kiss anyone. Sometimes i feel like an alien from everyone else and i feel like my life is boring. I keep telling myself that it'll be worth it when the right guy comes along. But, every time a guy does come along theres something that tells me 'No.' Its weird and i need advice:-/ Thanks.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? xXxpinky615xXx answered Saturday September 18 2004, 9:24 pm: Well honestly there is really nothing i can say a bout that. You're time WILL come trust me. When you have your first boyfriend and your first kiss it will all be worth the wait. In the mean time don't ever be down on yourself like telling yourself that you're not pretty or that you're fat or w/e guys don't go for girls with low self esteem. The best thing for you to do is smile. I tell everyone this, EVERYONE likes a nice smile if you're hanging out with your friends laughing just smile. because smiles attract alot of guys. And what you said about when a guy does come along and there's something that tells you "no"... maybe your not ready for it yet you just need to calm down for a while and just relax someone will come along. and when they do here are some tips on kissing ;-) as soon as your lips touch you should be okay... you'll be a little shakey at first but after a couple of seconds you'll be fine... make sure your faces are close enough so that you know where your lips are aiming and THEN close your eyes, do not open your mouth that wide because you might like eat his face, when you kiss a guy just like massage his tounge with yours... if you want to be a little kinky... try to nibble on his lip but not that hard because a guy tried to do that to me once and he bit my lip really hard and it started bleeding so if you do that PLEASE be careful and my boyfriend said it's called NIBBLING for a reason... so nibble do not bite! hope i helped!!! if you need anything just drop one in my box!
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