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I was wondering if u can help...See my friends and I (like 7 of us) tryed out for JV soccer and Varsity soccer and only like 3 of us didn't get on Varsity and I was one of them. Its really hard to look at them practice and wear their uniforms to school knowing i am not apart of it and It makes me really mad and frusterated... I kno i will make it next year but i dont' want 2 wait.. Any advice on how to deal with my friends etc??
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i know how you feel- ive had something like that happen too... first off if you need to talk about the situation without mentioning it to the friends who did make the team- talk to the other 2 friends that are in the same boat. its not fair the way they sometimes set up teams- but that should just make you work harder at your goal and be completely ready for anything next time. on how to deal with your friends- if they are close friends, im sure they must feel kind of awkward not having you on the team with them. if they arent close- you should definitly tell someone that is close to you about how you feel about it all. they can make you feel more at ease. sometimes teams are picked wrong, and if you are now on a team that isnt up to your standards- become the player that sticks out for abilities and they might decide to move you onto the JV/V soccer team... it depends on how your town organizes things with teams. but i know just the feeling of not making the team you really want to be on- its dissappointing, but you just have to move on. its going to bug you for a while- but soon you'll realize what you need to work on so they WILL pick you- even if that means asking the people why you were not picked. then practice whatever you need to until you think you're as good as you can get! good luck with everything, and dont forget there are others just like you feeling upset! =] -ask_anything
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