Question Posted Thursday September 2 2004, 8:15 pm
My boyfriend isn't staying in touch! we don't go to the same school and were not in the same town but i still love him! he never calls and i havn't talked to him in so long. i don't know what to do! i have thought of breaking up cause every time i call his parents or sister say he will call me back but he never does! one day his sister told me that he would call me around 5:15 and he never called! with him it is kind of like we are just friends... with this relationship it is only words that make us boyfriend and girlfriend! I am starting to think that he though i was a great friend and he didn't want to loose me as a friend so he asked me to be safe. but when i was with him one day he brought up kissing and i felt really awquard! i don't know what to do!
PLEASE HELP ME!!!
ps try to have a response tonight!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Ask_Anything answered Thursday September 2 2004, 8:23 pm: depending on how old you are- is going to show how mature your boyfriend is to staying touch. the younger they are, the worse they are at keeping in touch. if you still love him, you'll find a way to work things out =). you should tell him you get a little uneasy about him never calling you back. the whole thing with boyfriend/girlfriend is really overrated these days. younger kids its more of puppy love... not really that serious at times. even if it seems silly, you should tell him your worries that he's not well suited as more than a friend. if he brought up kissing... i guess it depends on the age. if you felt awkward, you arent ready to do that. you're in a sticky situation i can tell... but you might just want to take a break from the relationship for a while, or wait until he can commit to you. there isnt a right answer to this question- but if you have been thinking about breaking up... maybe you should. its not good to have a relationship where someone doesnt feel right. im sure he'll still love to be friends with you- as long as you dont be harsh when you break up. good luck with whatever choice you make =] -ask_anything [ Ask_Anything's advice column | Ask Ask_Anything A Question ]
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