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my friend....
Ok, me and my friend **J have been friends a little less than a year. And well things between us have ALWAYS been more than just friendly (yes, like friends with benefits), but we can't ever be just friends. As soon as he finds a girlfriend, or a friend he who he likes more than me that will be flingy with, he leaves me alone, I mean he completely stops talking to me. Well the first time I got REALLY attached to him, I would have done anything for him. Then he hurt me, really really really bad, to the point where I started cutting. Then I finally forgot about him and as soon as I have COMPLETELY erased him from my memory, he started talking to me again. It started getting super friendly again, and I tried to not get o attached and I guess I just did get attached without realizing it. And well he hurt me AGAIN. We don't even talk anymore. It didn't hit me hard until today, and I just started crying in the car on my way home from school. When I got home I had to avoid people because my eyes were puffy. I hate the fact that I still cry over him. What can I do to feel better?
- the ** means the name was abbreviated.
thanks,
Genna
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tell him that u appreciate being his friend but its not really ok 4 him 2 just ignore u like that. and also, u shouldnt get so touchy-eely if he isnt going to make sme kind of relatioship. i kno how it is to have some1 who wants 2 get all touchy feely wit u nd then just doesnt talk 2 u no more.
XoxO Alissa-marie
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Hey
I am in the same situation as u are, Im a little confused too. Im not gonna be so love sick puppy over this guy even tho I really like him take him in a room alone tell him how u fell ask him out or something im sure he totally digs u
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