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Hey its me again the one thats having the lil girl with the boyfriend who has a lil drinking problem.Well i talked to him today about it and he got all mad saying its not like hes cheating on me or doing drugs.And is acting like he doesnt have a problem with drinking.And i told him i didnt want it to be like this when alexis is born and he said it wouldnt and i said yeah right because he says it all the time and then goes and does it again. and he hung up on me.It seems like im getting know where and its getting me really upset which isnt good for me and this baby.What should i do?I love him so much :*-(
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Im dissapointed with his reaction :(
I know you love him..and this is probably one of the hardest choices you`ll have to make..but think about it:
1. its either your child growing up in an enviroment with an alcoholic father
or
2. growing up with a loving mom in a better enviroment.
Leaving him might be something to consider. As hard as it sounds..it might be something you have ti di for the sake of your first born baby girl.
Trust me, alchololism is NOT something you want your child around..i know because my friend lives with alcoholic parents and its horrible. Its rubbing off on her. Please dont let you or your child go through that. Its either he changes for you and your child..or i think you should leave him as hard as it will be.
Maybe then he`ll change.
Best of luck. I hope he makes the right choice
-melissa ]
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