I walk into the youth room @ church thinking it was just any normal youth group wendsday. I was a little late so I had missed a couple minutes of what my youth group was talking about, my pastor was there and I knew something was wrong. I whispered to my youth leader what we were talking about and she said "Christina(my friend) and Jeff (her bf)" My pastor was just talking and I heard "pregnant" and I got scared. I figured out that christina got pregnant but I didnt wanna believe it until someone actually said "Christina is pregnant" So I heard it, my youth pastor said it and I just started crying!! i love her cuz shes awesome and is in my youth group n stuff..i knew her bf was gonnabe a bad infulenece on her cuz he wasint christian and just got saved to be like "im saved christina date me" so anyway to make the long story short, they did eachother and now shes pregnant..and only 18..she moved out of her parents house and isint following God..i wanna tell her i love her (if i ever see her) but i think what shes doing is wrong..should i say it? i mean i dont want her mad at me..but it is wrong to leave your whole family and church family behind and go with a non-christian uve only known for 8 months! help!!! sorry its soo long..
Additional info, added Thursday August 26 2004, 7:59 pm: Some other info is that my pastor said we couldent accept what she is doing cuz then she'll think were accepting her sin so thats not right..but what else should i tell her?? oh and can u prya for her thanks!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Shandiebaby11 answered Sunday August 29 2004, 6:24 pm: Yes i can pray for her . And i think ur youth pastor is wrong.. I mean u should ask yourself What would Jesus Do ? Jesus would not just ignore ur friend ! He would tell her that he was praying for her and if she needed anything to let him know ! Jesus knows whats best and your friend did commit a sin and mess up but who hasn't ! In Jesus's eyes sin is sin..her getting pregnant is just like us telling a lie ! Jesus would pray for ur friend so u should and talk to her don't be afraid to tell her how u feel ! And exspecially tell her to not get an abortion and tell her top stay with God and is she is going to keep the child to raise it in a good christian home ! I hope i helped u ! God Bless ! And if u need anything else don't hesitate to ask me ! [ Shandiebaby11's advice column | Ask Shandiebaby11 A Question ]
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