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all of my friends like my best friend more than they like me Ok so my best friend has been my best friend since 1st grade. Well there is this girl named Ashley* who I have known since the first day of kindergarten. Well in 2nd grade she started riding my best friend's bus. After that Ashley* has startd to pretty much take over her. My best friend (Ally*) wasn't in my classes for 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th grade but when we got in middle school she was in ALL of my classes. Well then one of my friends (Sarah*), who has been Ally*'s friend for a really long time started to get jealous that me and Ally* were in a bunch of classes together. So Sarah* decides that she should shun me. Slowly all of my friends are like taking over Ally* and I dont wanna make a huge deal about it but it's starting to bug me. What should I do?
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Ok. First I think you need to know if Ally feels the same way about every 1 taking over her. If she agrees that every 1 is taking over her then, you should tell her how you are feeling. If she doesn't agree with you then I think that you should still be really good friends with her but maybe not BEST friends, because if she just disagrees with you and can't even understand how your point of view could be true in anyway, then it kinda makes me wonder how great of a friend she really is. If you just DON'T want to give her up as a BEST FRIEND then try inviting her over a lot and spending a lot of time with her. ]
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