Question Posted Wednesday August 25 2004, 10:42 pm
My bf and i are thinking about having sex were 17
and my worry is his penis is quite big and im a bit worried it will hurt a lot does it hurt?
And can his penis be too big?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? manda44 answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 11:44 pm: ok thats what i was afraid of too that it was gonna be too big. see my 1st time it hurt... ALOT. not to make u scared but when everyone told me "yeah it hurt really bad" i was like "it cant hurt that bad" but i was wrong. and i dunno if his penis can be too big. some have told me that thats true.. but when i did it, i was a complete virgin, never been fingered or anyting. it wasnt even pleasureable all like that the 1st time.. it was more pain than anything. but once the 1st tiem is over it wont hurt so much... just make sure ur "wet" like some call it or use extra lube if u want. so it slides in better. and it might be ezier for u to be on top so u can make urself go down on it at ur pase instead of him thrusting it in you... or if u want him on top let him kno u wanna go slow. but i think ull be fine. it will hurt if u are a virgin or if its been a long time since u had sex. but im pretty sure ull be ok. jus be safe and use a condom and have him check it b4 and after ur done so u kno it didnt break. and just take ur time. if u need anything else answered u can ask.
hope that helped.
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