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confused and feeling selfish
ok. my friend (ill call her sarah)likes this guy. ill call him sam. and i like him too. another friend (ill call her betty) likes sam. and sam only like betty. which sucks for sarah. i really like him. but i wont hold it against anyone if they go out with him. sarah says that she'll be really mad if i go out with him (he almost asked me out once...). and i dont wanna hurt her feelings but im really confused. if i went out with him, id feel really selfish....i just dont know what to do. oh yea by the way, he just asked me out and i said that id think about it. im female and im 17. this is really long im sorry.
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lol its ok that its long! well if sarah is a really good friend then she shouldn't care if you go out with him, but eh..i guess she really likes him so the situation changes a lil. but maybe you should just sit down and talk with her and say if i go out with him i don't want to lose you as a friend, and if she really doesn't want u 2, then don't...its hard but you've gotta stay true to your friends. or if you realize that you would rather lose sarah as a friend and go out with sam, then do that, its really whatever you think is right...remember, those who mind won't matter and those who matter won't mind. hope that helps..x0
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