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Question Posted Tuesday August 24 2004, 9:03 pm

okay.. i dont really know how to explain this, but im gonna try my best!.. im so sorry. but its gonna be long!

I've like this guy for awhile now, and before i even realized i had these feelings for him.. we had become friends. Well, the thought never even crossed my mind before that he might like me as more than a friend. But i would notice little things... like whenever i was with my friends and he was with his, he would alwayz be looking at me and then he would alwayz make a point to come over and talk with ME and my friends. and omg whenever we would talk or whatever he had the biggest kutest smile on.. and he would get nervous around me... and i would get nervous around him too, it was so obvious.. lol. well he left our school.. and i hadnt seen him in awhile.. we just talked online.. but he came to one of our school events, and i had gotten mad at him for something like the day before.. so i didnt say hi or anything... but he was staring at me the whole time like he was sad cuz i didnt come and say hi and all these other people had... but then me n my friend had to go on stage and do our little act thing.. and it was so kute!... he left his big group that he was in and him n his friend came running up to us and told us how good we did.. even though i hadnt said hi to him or anything.. so then we talked for awhile.. and when i had to leave he came n found me and gave me the best hug and told me he was sorry and he wanted to talk to me more... which i think he wanted me to call him.. becuz normally he wouldnt call girls.. they had to call him before he would call them. BUT anyways.. im so sorry this is sooo long... lol but yah.. he went off to military school.. and when he came back... he was so different.. and i know it could change you and everything, but normally it would help you... but he just seemed like mean and stuff... but we talked a little.. and then we kinda stopped talking.. but i am so much in love with him!... and i kant get him out of my head... i at least want to be friends with him.. but ive tried talking to him online.. and he never answerz me or anything... and i dont want to call him cuz thatd be weird.. i actually dont know what my question is now... lol hold on lemme think.. okay, i guess im asking.. do you think i should just forget about him.. and if so do you have any tips?? becuz ive tried everything.. and now i guess i kind of feel like im annoying him or something... but i realli am in love with him... so wut should i do??... im tired of trying to even just be his friend...


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icey0990 answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 9:42 pm:
ok...i would talk to him online one last time and say something like..." do you like me? because i like you...and just tell me now if u do because if u dont im just gona move on..." this will get a definate answer from him so you`ll know...i know its gutsy...but go for it!
If this doesnt work or if you decide to move on...just start lookin at guys in school and see what they have to offer..who knows ..maybe mr. right is in your school...start checkin out hot guys at the malll or w/e..that will def. get ur mind off him. Keep in mind if it doesnt happen..then it wasnt meant to be.
Good luck i hope it works out between u and him!

-melissa-

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