hey i am 14/f i reli need sum help with dis i hav dis friend n she tells me everything n we ben thro quite a bit i was always therre for her wen shtuff happened n i always helped her out tha problem is dat weneva i hav shtuff goin on dat i need 2 tlk bout she never listens lyk i start sayin sumthin n she'll cut me off n start tlkn bout herself or i want 2 tell her a funni stori but she interupts me in mai first sentence n starts sayin sumthin bout melissa(one of her reli good friends) i dunt wana confront her bout it cuz i kno dat she will get reli mad cuz she always tells me dat she is therre for me but in reality she isnt PLEASE HELP thank u sooooo much
* aLiCiA *
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? BballBumMegan answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 4:52 pm: hmm..tough situation.. I really think that u shood talk to her(even tho u said u dint want to) becuz shes interrupting but she doesnt realize that shes doing it..be very careful when u tell her tho..dont make it sound bossy and mean..and if shes a true friend then shell take it well and try to not interrupt as much..if u absolutely cant talk to her..as mean as this sounds..u can try to give her a dose of her own medicine..like if ur talking and she interrupts..give her a few seconds to talk then be like "ok..anyways..I was at the mall the other day and..etc" if shes smart shell take the hint and let u talk..if she gets mad when u do either thing then I don't think shes a real friend anyways..to be a friend you have to tell ur friends things and listen to them too..anyways I hope I helped ya out..I know ull do the rite thing..(PLeASe RaTe) [ BballBumMegan's advice column | Ask BballBumMegan A Question ]
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