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Is it worth it?


Question Posted Monday August 23 2004, 11:20 pm

Me and this girl have been friends fo a really long time and became very close in 7th and 8th grade. Me trying to be her friend was trying to tell her that her aditude changed towards me over the summer. She wont listen to me and now she is so mad at me! Ive tryed everything and she wont except my appology or me talking to her. She is so mean to me now i dont know what to do its like i held all my feelings inside and now iam finally trying to tell her them and she wont listen and she always said shes open to anything and will always be my best friend. Now we both are ? our friendship. It hurts so bad cause we were so close and now going to High school she wants to be all cool and she really is such a bitch now. Idk how to tell her and make her understand. I even sent her a im greeting telling her that she was everything a best friend qualified for and she was everything i look for in a best friend and i told her to put aside the fight and that i wanted to remind her that she will always be my best friend then she imed me telling the that it was all Bull shit and that i didnt mean it now were in this hudge fight and the fair is coming up and idont want to be in a fight when i am trying to have a good time. Is it really worth fighting for i mean she wont budge? Iam 14 and iam a female i live in Kent

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XoOxKissesXoOx answered Monday August 23 2004, 11:26 pm:
well it depends on how much u care bout her... it sounds like ya care bout her and i know u do but i dunno if she cares about u as much as it seems, if she cared about u she would definatly say u know wut its ok lets put this aside im gunna try to change my attitude, im sry.. but it sounds like she wont admit that she can be a bitch sometimes.. or a lot.. wutever u think.. but to me i dont think its worth it.. u know were gunna be goin to highschool.. and ur gunna be making sooo many new friends that are better than that.. u dont need something like that holdin u back its just not right, if she realllly cared about u and was a true best friend she would say sry and admit to her mistakes, so no i dont think its worth it.. ur gunna meet so many new friends that wont be like that, i mean im not saying u should hate her, just dont waste ur time on this, if she feels bad let her come to u.. dont keep on going to her! :-)

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