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what do you do when you want to have sex with someone you know...but they are older than you? And How do you know when you are ready? (link)
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well r u totally sure u want to have sex? i mean virginity is something u wanna hold on to as long as u can, and u wanna lose it to a respectful person, but i mean if u think ur ready than thats ur choice, but does he want to have sex with u? i mean theres nothing wrong if hes older than u.. well i mean it depends on how much older he is than u.. i mean how much older is he than u? but u definatly know when ur ready for it, i guess u just feel that ur physically and mentally ready, and realize that once u lose ur virginity u can never go back, and have to make sure u think about pregnancy and STD's and everything like that, sry im making this sounds horrible but i just want to make sure u realize how much risk ur putting up.. write back if u still have unanswered questions!
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ok well hi i'm nichole n i live in ohio n i'm 13 bout to b 14 in dec. but i wanna runaway b/c i get abused by my father he punches me n ppl say tell somebody but i can't b/c he would hit me more n my mom don't do nothin bout it n i have a bf thats 15 n hes gettin his license soon but i'm not sopposed to date n i get away from my dad by going to him is that good? n wat should i do bout my dad? but i also abusemyself my cuttin my wrists b/c of my dad well can u plz help me? (link)
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first of all im so sry.. it sounds like u have a pretty hard life, and i could imagine y u would want to run away, but y doesnt ur mom know about this? shouldnt she know.. i mean i think that she could really help u.. but then again i dont know ur mom, but still.. but i understand y u would wanna see ur boyfriend and everything i mean its not ur fault that u guys like eachother it jut happened, and ur almost 14 ur definatly old enough to dat, and u do need to tell someone.. to start out i think that u should tell ur mom, she has got to help u somehow, shes ur mom! but if u dont tell some adult soon it could get worse.. im just trying to tell u, help urself before u let this whole situation get worse, and y does ur dad hit u.. i mean does he have a history of doing that stuff, and did he ever hit ur mom? but u also should cut ur wrists, i know ur life is a mess right now but thats not helping at all.. please find help, go to a phycitrist.. i dont know how to spell it lol sry, just get help before things get worse... even though i dont know u very well im always here for u to talk, write on here whenever u need advice.. im here! i hope i helped
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Me and this girl have been friends fo a really long time and became very close in 7th and 8th grade. Me trying to be her friend was trying to tell her that her aditude changed towards me over the summer. She wont listen to me and now she is so mad at me! Ive tryed everything and she wont except my appology or me talking to her. She is so mean to me now i dont know what to do its like i held all my feelings inside and now iam finally trying to tell her them and she wont listen and she always said shes open to anything and will always be my best friend. Now we both are ? our friendship. It hurts so bad cause we were so close and now going to High school she wants to be all cool and she really is such a bitch now. Idk how to tell her and make her understand. I even sent her a im greeting telling her that she was everything a best friend qualified for and she was everything i look for in a best friend and i told her to put aside the fight and that i wanted to remind her that she will always be my best friend then she imed me telling the that it was all Bull shit and that i didnt mean it now were in this hudge fight and the fair is coming up and idont want to be in a fight when i am trying to have a good time. Is it really worth fighting for i mean she wont budge? Iam 14 and iam a female i live in Kent (link)
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well it depends on how much u care bout her... it sounds like ya care bout her and i know u do but i dunno if she cares about u as much as it seems, if she cared about u she would definatly say u know wut its ok lets put this aside im gunna try to change my attitude, im sry.. but it sounds like she wont admit that she can be a bitch sometimes.. or a lot.. wutever u think.. but to me i dont think its worth it.. u know were gunna be goin to highschool.. and ur gunna be making sooo many new friends that are better than that.. u dont need something like that holdin u back its just not right, if she realllly cared about u and was a true best friend she would say sry and admit to her mistakes, so no i dont think its worth it.. ur gunna meet so many new friends that wont be like that, i mean im not saying u should hate her, just dont waste ur time on this, if she feels bad let her come to u.. dont keep on going to her! :-)
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how do you get a girl that dosn't really no you or like you to like you whats the best way to ask out person Im or phone there answer those tough ones.
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well u do u mean she doesnt really know u? do u mean u dont know eachother that well or wut? and there is no best way to ask someone out, phone is more direct, but IM is just as good, just make sure u tell her y ur asking her out if u do ask a grl out! :-)
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