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He's So Confusing
OK well i have the biggest crush on this boi and he's my bestfriend i talk to him about everything and we have known each other 4 like 2 years now.he was going with this girl 4 like 10 months and she broke up with him and wont even talk to him or anything.and he's alwayz telling me how she broke his heart and how he's trying to get over her and so on.but ya i really like him and he knows it to but i guess he's trying to avoid the subject and he like telles me everything and after i told him he acts the same and tells me about others gurl and i guess i act like i dont care but i do cause im not gonna be sitting there acting like it does bother me well ya but what sucks the most i go with his bestfriend and he likes me alot but when im with him i wish i was with (lets call him john) john so ya it sucks very much and i dont think he likes me but he said he just wants to be friends and he doesnt want to lose my friendship.so i dont know what to do about my feelings.
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well chances are if he said he just wants to be friends, then thats the truth. it may be upsetting, and not what you want. but atleast he was honest and it also means he really loves being your friend and sometimes thats a better thing. so you should respect that. and as for the boy you are with, if you dont really like him that then maybe you shouldnt be with him and just be single for a while and explore your options. good luck! :)
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I don't think it's fair to the guy you're with if you continue the relationship. I most certainly wouldn't want anyone to do something like that to me. So break it off with him and just wait for *John.* He knows your feelings and he'll act upon them when he feels he's ready. Maybe it won't ever work, but at least you told him how you felt. Just give him time as well, since he just got out of a relationship. He may not want to rush into anything.
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