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im a fifteen year old guy and ive been with my gf for about 3 years now. ive been noticing that shes acting a lot differently lately, so it didnt surprise me when i found out she was cheating on me. whenever i talk to her she looks scared straight. i started seeing bruises on her body a few days ago and am pretty sure that the guy that she is cheating on me with is abusing her. how do i confront the abuser to make it so he doesnt hurt my gf anymore and so he doesnt do something crazy to hurt me?
p.s.- this abuser is also the highschool bully
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well for starters your gf is prolly scared straight when she sees you bc she doesnt want anyone to find out about her abuser. my guess is he prolly threatened her into not telling you. but this is serious and if you are sure that u have your facts strate then u need to tell some1 immidiatly. instead of confronting him i would sugesst going to the school counselor or someone that can help. u need to be sure that this is what happened, so find some time when u can talk to ur gf without him around and make sure she is in no danger by talking to u. if he is the school bully the staff is prolly already aware of his anger and wont hessitate to act on this. please w/e u do .. dont let this keep happening- a large percent of deaths each year are bc of abusive bf's.
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