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Question Posted Wednesday August 18 2004, 4:59 pm

This is to the question you answered for me about my boyfriend going away. We were talking about college because I'm goin to be starting college on September 5th and he was suppose to too but he changed his mind yesterday and decided he is going to start the second half. He had me all upset and I was crying and trying to find a way he could take out loans and everything. We were in my car when I told him about the loans and he said he didnt want to take one out so I got upset and started crying again. He asked me to drop him off which got me a little mad because we don't have that much longer to be together untill I go away for 3-4 months. I told him I wasnt going to pick him up for the rest of the day again. I might of even said tomorrow in there also. So he shut his phone off at around 4 after he got out of my car n told me I was making it harder for him (not going the first semester) and so he has had his phone off the whole time still right nwo its off. I left him voicemails and he hasnt called. I know that his friend was going away 2 hours from here on vacationa nd coming home on Sunday but my boyfriend said he wasnt going to go unless I went because his friend is just going to be picking up girls the whole time. I called his sister this mornign ebcause Im friends with her n because my boyfriend didnt go to work this morning (he works for my dad) and she said he didnt go home last night but he went by her work with the kid thats on vacation. So I cant stop crying because I can't get a hold of him and plus I don't know if its over yet and its killing me inside. I just don't know what to do. I'm 18 and hes 19 and we have even planned on gettin married around 24ish. I called his friend too and he isnt answering his phone.

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GC_rox_my_sox answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 6:00 pm:
I understand now, that's a bit different. For him to do that was really rude and immature. I think you should think about if you really want to marry a guy who will go hook up with other girls just because you got in a fight. People fight a lot during marriage. It sounds like your boyfriend overreacts when you fight. You two deffinatley need to talk to each other when he gets back.

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