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hi i have a problem..here goes my situation..
not to sound conceited but i know im a very pretty girl n so do all the other people..that is not the problem..my problem is that i often feel uncomfortable in social situations..im totally cool if i know the person..or the people..or if its one on one..but if i get introduced to people i dont know i feel very uncomfortable and can never be myself..or when it comes to presentations in class n stuff..its weird bc if u know me well u would never think iwould be like that..most ppl that know me well(outside of school) think im crazy n fun..but in school its totally different..it seems like i cant loosen up..sometimes i feel a little off..etc..today at lunch i was sitting with 2 people i knew n other people i didnt and i felt really weird and uncomfortable n didnt know what to do..please help me! please.i dont know what to do..i mean im totally cool w these people outside of school...we hang out..party etc..even if i dont know them..outside of school im really outgoing n just introduce myself to a lot of people..but at school i like freeze...help me please!!
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That's a common problem. You have created a persona with the people you see on a daily basis, and that works for you. You like the idea they have of you. After awhile, you start to identify with their idea as the person you are, you define yourself by what they think. When you meet someone new, you experience anxiety because they may not see the "you" that you have come to like, and may see seomthing that you may not want them to see. You say you do fine in social situations withthose that you know. Try and focus on interractiong with the ones you know and while you are, the others will join in, feeling comfortable, and you'll soon be interacting with them without a second thought.
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