i have one of the greatest guys in my life EVER! hes so sweet and ive never had anyone love me more than him.he treats me like his princess and when he holds me i feel more safe than anytime ever. and i can let him do things that norally i wuld totally freak out with any other guy. and i know that he wont even rush me into things that i dont want to be rushed into. it dosent matter to him as long as he is with me. and we joke around and talk about getting married and having kids and everything. and we really are in love that much. but hes not my boyfriend. we have two problems....1-were only 14 and 16.(im 14 hes 16) and 2- he lives 2 hours away from me. but we act like were a couple. seriously. i dont even know why we arent. everytime he thinks he can handle distance he ends up not being able to. i love this guy so much tho. yeah yeah....i know its ridiculous since im only 14 but i seriously am. please help me! do i ask him out even tho ive always believed that the guy shuld be the one to do it? and even if we do get together how do we deal with the distance? HELP and tell me what you thnk i shoud do!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? born2baprincess answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 12:26 am: Hey chickadee~!! It really sucks that u found the love of ur life that lives 2 hours away. He sounds really kewl. About the long distance thing trying to commuicate more can help. The good thing is u can drive soon which really helps and so can he?? But sometimes parents dont let that happen...grrrr..Dealing with long distance takes more time than having a boyfriend live close. It means more and its way more difficult. So be paitent and confident in urself. Let him know exactly how u feel ((if u havent done so)) He sounds totally understanding. About asking him out...thats a hard ?..ask urself do u really wanna be hurt... cuz u said he has a hard time with the long distance. Sometimes things are better when u arent going out. The guy feels that he doesnt have a commitment. Maybe he hasnt asked u cuz of that. It puts more stress on the guy. Except if u two get really close and the communication gets good.. I say GO FOR IT!!!! U obviously love him. Like I say going out with an older guy has its advantages. Well if u need nemore help lemme know. By the way ur problem was a toughy lol Holler xOxO*Shannon [ born2baprincess's advice column | Ask born2baprincess A Question ]
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