I have this friend, right. Well they ask me to do something that I did not want to do. I dont want to say no because they will think of me as a loser but I dont want to say yes because I dont really want to do it. What should i do ?
Signed,
Ms. Confused
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? alexisz answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 8:01 am: weLL iF thiSz perSon iSz a FRiENDd then theyy wiLL RESPECT your decision to not do whatever it iSz youu dont want to do and iF theyy caLL youu a loSer then theyre not that good oF a friend .. or iF you know there going somewhere where there going to do it and they ask you to come make an excuSe nd dont put your seLf in the situation ..like iF there goin to the parkk on a tueSdaii to do "it" whatever it iSz loL then make an excuSe when they askk youu to go.. but iF youu do get stuck there in that situation and they askk ..withstanDd peerpresSure i know itSz hard cuSz youu wanna bEe cooL but iF itSz something youu dont want to do youu gotta be strong and your "FRieNDd" wiLL understand [ alexisz's advice column | Ask alexisz A Question ]
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