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he's MINE
theres this really cute guy i like and my friend likes him too and we made a pact that whoever he likes, he likes and each of us wont get mad. but they flirt a lot and i want to let her know hes MINE not hers! its complicated but i like him like a lot and i want him to be mine but the problem is so does she. how do i get her out of the picture?
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Okay, the SAME thing happened to me with one of my best friend's. Here's what happened: One year we liked the same guy but we made no pact like that. The guy ended up asking ME out and she got really jealous so what she did was, well, flirt with him. A lot. He ended up breaking up with me for her and that really hurt our friendship. I regretted what happened. The next year the same thing happened. We both liked a boy, we both tried for his attention. I finally decided to make a pact with her and the boy ended up asking me out. This time, she just accepted it and the next week another guy that she liked asked her out. What I'm saying is, you made a pact and you should keep it. There's no way to get her out of the picture because you promised her what would happen, would happen. It seems like you guys both like him a lot but who do you think HE likes? Guys aren't worth hurting relationships with your friends. There are PLENTY of guys out there looking for the right girl and hey, you might be one of them! If this is really bothering you, I suggest maybe talking to her but don't say anything to threaten her. (ie, do not say "Ryan is SO mine! Get away from him you dirty looking skank!") If he seems more into her, just accept it. It may hurt but there are so many other cute guys worth dating, and you might be the girl of his dreams. =)
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