I becamse frineds, with my now best friend, a month before i started going out with her brother. Him and i went out for a week, the one week was fine i guess but then after that he was kinda rude, but then when i staytred hanging out with his sister more and more he kinda clunged to me more and more again, and when i slept over her hosue some stuff happened. I alwyas want to talk to her about thigns that had happerned between him and i but im afraid she'll get mad and think its weird b/c its her brother. she is my beat friend and i wish i coudl talk to her about ANYTHING and i think im still in love with him, and i would like to express that to her but i dont knwo how she'll respond, what should i do?! i dont knwo hwo to get over him, even though he has movoed out fo the house. or if i shoudl tell her? or keep it to myself?
TheKnightOwl answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 8:48 pm: Well, I've answered a question like this before. If you think something serious could arise from this relationship, then you should talk to your best friend first. Sit her down, tell her you've got something serious to talk about with her. Tell her you think that her brother and you could become serious, and that before it does, you want to make sure its okay with her first. This will let her know that it is very important to you, and she'll atleast think about it before saying yes or no. If she is that good of a friend then she'll think long and hard about it. And she'll respect that you came to her first. Good luck, I hope it works out for you.
icey0990 answered Tuesday August 10 2004, 2:23 pm: As for you still liking him, sure tell ur friend. Just bring him up..and if your friend tightens up about the subject..maybe you should leave it alone. If shes open to it, just express how you still like him.If your asking if you should give her details about what you 2 did, i say definately no..thats kinda weird. lol
hope i helped out a lil
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