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Alrighty here is the story...
Me and one of my best friends like this boy, but my friend always clames she likes him more. I have been out with him before though too, and he only lkes her as a a cloe friend, not like that. but he does like me! and i like him...so he asked me out again and i put MY feelings first this time and said yes. because the other times we went out my best friend always was pissed at me so i had to break up with him. but now she is so pissed at me! she called me "some" names and stuff...and frankely it pissed me off too...I told her i would break up with him if it ment we could be friends again but she said no because she doesnt want to see him hurt again...and since i have ALOT of shit going on in my life i decided i couldnt handel a boyfriend so i broke up with him...but the thing is i didnt do it just because of her, but some of it yah...and now she is so pissed at me and hates me pretty much and now her best friend hates me too...and i like them alot, and i am willing to do ANYTHING! i really want to be friends again, but nothing works! i have tried telling them that and saying how much i am sorry, but they just say i am irritating, so i tried not talking to them for awhile but i cant get them off my mind! right now is a time in my life where i need my close friends. And i havent even been able to talk to them about any of this stuff because they arent here for me anymore! and i just dont know wut to do.Please help me out because i dont know what to do, and just remember i will do ANYTHING! plz....
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First of all...thanks for asking a question in my advice column! In a way..I can understand where you are coming from..since I have been in that same situation..somewhat. At this time in your life...friends are like one of your most important values..and I can see why your saying you really need them right now. Well gurl...you know I'm always here for you..and you can talk to me about absolutely ANYTHING. I would also suggest talking to a close relative..maybe an older sister or your mom...someone who understands your perspective and point of view..someone you get along well with and is there for you all the time. I'm glad you put your feelings first this time. I personally think it was brave of you to do that...so u go gurl! Newayz lol..I also think that your best friend should try to realize what you did just for her(well not just for her but her being part of the reason why)..If you really still like this boy..then I would suggest talking to him about this and just seeing where your "relationship" is going..Your best friends should also understand that you really can't help liking him because it's just what your heart is telling you..Even if they claim they like him more..that doesn't give them any right to criticize you for your own true feelings. Just try waiting a little while longer..if they are your true friends they will realize how important your friendship really is..and they will hopefully just accept your feelings! If after a while they don't try to talk to you or anything..just have a heart-to-heart..tell them how you feel..or have another good friend talk to the person and let them know what you are going through..This might help them to accept the true fact that maybe you guys are just meant to be!? If you have any other questions....let me know! Also...jus tell me what happens if u want....that'd be great.....
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