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how do i get her back


Question Posted Monday August 9 2004, 4:02 am

Okay well i just got out this relatinship with this girl and i noe im young and what not but i love this girl and i admit i messed up wit her i shouldnt have lied and i took her for granted and my sorry really dont mean much to her there isnt a day that goes by i dont think about her and i really want her back but i dont noe what todo to get her back ive changed but i need to find a way to show her ive changed i can seem to find that way.im 17 male

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-wizerwordz- answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 12:37 am:
ok...this is a really tough situation.
You're not really giving me details here, like exactly how bad this is (like what you lied about and how you took her for granted). You said you were sorry to her and yes you do need to show her you changed. If you're friends with anyone who hangs out with her/one of her good friends, maybe they can convince her to talk to you and maybe give you a chance to explain and show her how you changed. I suppose she doesn't want to listen to anything you have to say, so she probably won't care if YOU tell her all this, but if you think she might, then go for it and tell her you really want to make it up to her and tell her how you feel about her and the whole situation. If what you did and lied about is that bad, then you have a VERY little chance of her wanting to get back with you at all, if any chance. If she cared about you, then she shouldn't have just lost her feelings for you right away. She probably still thinks of you a lot and is bothered by all this, so there is a SLIGHT posibility you MIGHT be able to fix this.

I understand it's really hard to break up with someone, especially over a stupid screw up. This may not be something you want to hear, but you will have to get over it if you can't fix it and get her back.

I hope this helps you out :)
Any questions or anything else, drop another 1 in my inbox, or feel free to IM me anytime on AIM. My screen name is wizerwordz.

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-wizerwordz- answered Monday August 9 2004, 10:26 pm:
how exactly did you mess up. like what did you lie about? you're not really givin me details. anyway, if its that bad and shes really taking it like that, you have a slim chance of even showing her you've changed.

IM me on wizerwordz if u can and tell me about this, maybe i can try to help

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