me and my boyfriend have been going on out for 9 months now, and we recently broke it off for about 2 weeks and i had the time of my life..but we got back together because i know i love him and dont want to be without him..but the fun i was having was gone..now hes been gone for 2 weeks and once again ive been back to having tons of fun..idk what does this mean? what should i do..
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SammyPie answered Sunday August 8 2004, 3:56 pm: I think that this means you should take a break from your boyfriend. If you feel like you are happier and having more fun when he ISN'T around, then MAYBE, just maybe the relationship thing isn't working for you right now. Do what makes you happy. I don't know what you meant by you "had the time of your life." But if you can't still have that "happy time" while you are with your boyfriend, then you shouldn't push yourself to hold a relationship. You MAY love him, however, some things you have to do for yourself. Trust me on this (the part about doing things for yourself.) I know from experience that you should act on your instincts and your brain, not JUST with your heart. Try to figure out a way to have both the happiness and your boyfriend, because it seems to me like you care about him a lot, its just that you aren't too sure of things right now. Think about what YOU need first, not what everyone else's reaction might be.
I hope this helped. If you have anymore questions, please feel free to ask them, because I am always here to help. Let me know how things turn out. <3 ~SammyPie [ SammyPie's advice column | Ask SammyPie A Question ]
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