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too much love for one guy
I seem to have fallen for this guy who I go to summer camp with; hes everything you could imagine- He's sweet, makes you laugh, is active (snowboards, surfs, skateboards), and knows how to treat a girl he cares about and make her happy. The trouble is he's going out with my friend. At least I thought she was my friend. She always hurts me, emotionally and physically. A couple weeks ago I was sitting on a fence and she pushed me off for no reason at all and I twisted my ankle, then i was drinking from a bottle and she hit the end of it on purpose and it cut my lip, she always does little things to hurt me and its finally turning into one big thing. She calls me a whore and a slut on a regular basis and always finds ways to hurt my feelings. She also talks behind peoples' backs which makes her seem a little two-faced, like she always tells my other friend she's pretty and georgous but to me shes like, "I really think shes not pretty at all." Why does he like her if he knows she's like this? He always flirts with me and smiles at me and I've even been over his house. His girlfriend, my "friend" has been wicked overprotective lately though, she yells at me when i even go over to him to just TALK! i dont know what to do, but i trust you. You deffitnly don't suck at love from A to Z if you got me this far. love, Me
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dear too much love for one guy-
sounds like you have 2 problems here... one is that you have a so called "friend" who is in a way abusive and your second problem is you have a boy who you like that seems to choose to ignore her abusive behavior (or doesnt realize it). for your first problem, you need to show your friend you can stand up for yourself. next time she makes one of those unnessesary actions, you need to tell her to STOP because it isnt funny and your getting very upset over it. if this girl has any nerve and decides to take this as a joke, this obviously means she isnt friend quality AT ALL. and if things get REALLy serious between you two, you should definitly report it to a counsulor or someone who can help you out (even if it seems embarrassing). from what i can tell, this girl is jealous of you and wants to put you down in all ways possible. shes so protective of her boyfriend when your around,is prob. because she senses a connection between you two and is getting nervous he might dump her for you. if you feel like you can take the chance by breaking them up, you should talk to this boy and ask him if things between you two would ever work. and to your question "why does he like her if he knows she's like this?", this either is because he doesnt realize shes hurting someone so much, or because he finds this "attractive" ?? = who knows whats going through his head about her, you should ask him when shes not around.
one last piece of advice, you need to make sure this guy is worth everything. summer love interests usually dont last long, unless both people are commited... so think hard before you make any decisions that could ruin your relationships with either person...
thanks for the compliment =) and if you need to ask more, you know where to find me! <3- ask_anything
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