ok..my cousins having a wedding shes 22 and my cousins morgan gets to be in it and i dont..do u think thats rude? or just me..and im really hurt by it..neways my mom told my grandma how hurt i was and how mad she was and so my grandma told everybody and now everybody on my dads side is mad at her (my mom n dad got a divorce and my cousin thats gettin married is on my dads side) neways..there all being bitches toward her and i cant help to think that its MOSTLY my fault..that this is goin bad.my cousin morgan is perfect..goes to a christian skool..does every kinda sport does horse showing..piano..basketball..everything perfect never gets detentions.etc..and everybody in my family praises her for it..i mean im great with music i CAN sing and i CAN play piano beautifuly..i try so hard to impress them..but they never notice..i always get detentions and i dont go to a christian skool..im just like..hurt becuz i try so hard to just get them to notice me and they dont wut so ever and it hurts..and u know it just sucks that im the better singer and piano player..and mu cousin wouldn't let us even do a duet in the wedding..nothing..im really hurt..so ne advice? i could use it..
Additional info, added Tuesday August 3 2004, 11:37 pm: also my mom wont let my go to the wedding becuz shes so hurt..:-/. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? twizzler2 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 3:07 pm: just try to get over it and put some dirt on it a suck it up. i know it seems mean this advice but it works. maybe its just their attitudes..maybe its them..not You. so wat i wud do is dont worry about it ..there are gonna b a lot of things we arent gonna appreciate in life and we make them worse by worrying about them..just act lyk its nutting cuz in a year or so it wont matter so y shud u waste all ur stress on worrying!! u dont have to do all those things lyk go to a christian skool to b a wonderful person!! im sure ur fine the way u are!! Dont let is bring u down..hope everything works out!! Twizzler [ twizzler2's advice column | Ask twizzler2 A Question ]
LEFTalone answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 12:17 am: it isnt all intirely ur fault... all u did was speak ur mind. maybe ur counsin picked ur other cousin to be in the wedding is because she is closer to her than with u. and maybe she doesnt want u to do a duet because she had other plans... im not sure because i dont know her but those are some possible reasons. and u should talk to ur mom about letting u go thats not fair at all. tell me how it works out.
much <3.
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