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wassup
alot of girls are asking me out and i like some of them but i dont wanna go out with them...dunno why..ive never had a gf but 13 ppl have asked me out this year, why dont i want a gf??am i afraid?
also, what do u do when your REALLY bored at home?
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It's alright to not want a girlfriend, no matter what the reasons are. Girls are just more trouble than they're worth, sometimes.
Honestly, dating isn't something you HAVE to do just yet. Wait for a special girl that you see yourself really liking, because just dating for a month, breaking up, dating for two months with someone else, breaking up, and then repeating that cycle with girl after girl is just a stupid idea and it's not worth the emotional pain.
--Jack
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You're probably not ready. You're only 13, it's no big deal. I don't think you're necessarily "afraid", but maybe you're just not interested in relationships yet. It's totally ok, and in time, you WILL be ready and you will want a relationship. Just enjoy being young right now, cause you're only young once!
As for when you're bored, that's another question and you should ask it separately. Asking two totally different questions at once is against the rules :)
-Laura (17-f)
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Maybe you are afraid, if you are questioning that you MIGHT be, then the chances are there, that you are scared. If you are afraid, you shouldn't be. You've been asked out thirteen, this means, that to quite a few girls, youhave a likeable personality and probarbly quite attractive - you should have confidence. There is a reason why they like you.
You may not have been in a relaionship yet for quite a few reasons. Your hormones might have not kicked in yet. You might not find anyone attractive yet, you will in time. You may have just not found a girl you really like and connect with. You might just not be interested - having a girlfriend isn't the biggest exciting thing in the world, and the novelty wears off.
I'm sixteen, female, and for me, the reason why I have turned down guys and not dated is infact because I'm not interested, having a boyfriend is the littlest thing I care about, and I havn't found someone I really like yet. If you are going to go out with someone, make sure it's with someone who you really like.
Obviously these are just suggestions, I don't know you very well to say.
When your bored? Eat,bake,cook,paint,go out (bowling,ice skating,pic nics, museums), shop, visit friends, go on the internet, play video games (sims) and board games, excersise - swimming, customize stuff, get a new look, read, visit family, , go for a walk, paint , take up photography etc
Hope I helped, Inbox me for anything else.
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i dont know why you dont have a gf, only you know if your scared or not. your still young so you shouldnt worry about having a gf. Unless you want one, you gotta step it up and get with a girl. You might be fearing to have one becoz you never had a gf? im guessing. Its no big deal, you learn something new in every relationship. =)
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