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friends and love o.O
alright.. this might be confusing and its reall long but here it goes. Me and this guy [we'll call him james] james.. at the beginning of this yr.. met, we got to know eachother alot. and really liked eachother.. but we never really told anyone that we really really liked eachother. Then my friend [we'll call her amy] met him too and she started likin him. I didnt say anything.. just.. me and james kept talkin. it felt really wrong for me because amy didnt know. and james was also "talkin" to her but he was just leadin her on. i told him that we should tell her the we liked eachother. He said he would but he never did. me and james ended up fallin in love.. and i just had to tell amy. so i went to her house and all and told her. it hurt her alot and i felt really bad but she forgave me because it really took alot of courage to tell her that. then james started hangin out with my cousin and bit by bit we drifted.. to the point where we didnt talk anymore.. i was really hurt by this and though about him 24-7.. so then i IMed him and found out he was mad at me for something i dont know what it was and he wouldnt tell me. then a couple days later i ended up talking to him. everything seemed to be going well.. but then i got into an arguement with amy and all of a sudden james hates me and he wished me dead. i was REALLY hurt by this. and everytime i would try to ask him what i did.. he would just say "You should know" and i dont know because i didnt do anything! [btw im still in love with him at this point] and then later on i found out that amy had told him some bulls*!t about me. i still dont know what it is but i never did anything to hurt him so i know its bulls*!t. and then a week later.. me and amy became friends again but james still hated me. and amy new how i felt about james. then a couple weeks later.. amy, james, my cousin and 2 other friends went to the movies.. and when amy came home.. she told me that she did stuff with james at the movies. at this point i was going crazy. i dont know what to do. but me and amy are "best friends" and have been for 8 years... so i forgave her .... a couple days later. i dont know if i should have though.. is amy really a good friend?.. this was the second time she f**ked me over with the love of my life. so the questions are:
is amy really a good friend?
should i still be her friend?
how can i get james to talk to me?
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No i dont think she is a good friend because if she was she wouldnt be making up shyt about you so people wouldnt like you. I think she is just jealous and needed to do something for him to like her instead of you. I dont think you should still be her friend , or atleast tell her if she still wants to be your friend she has to tell james that what she said about you wasnt true , and maybe that will make him talk to you. Or you can explain the situation to him , and he will see that she only did it because she liked him and didnt want him to like you instead of her. Hope i helped =)
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