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My bestfriend cant keep secrects! help! i no this isnt rly a big thing compared 2 wut u deal with but i dont no how 2 like deal with this muh self...so...my BEST friend in the entire world has a problem with keeping secrets n i dont no what 2 do?¿? i cant get mad at her even if i tried and ive tried talking 2 her about how i dont ever want ne one 2 no about these things but she seems not 2 understand. like this one time i did sumthing with this guy n i told her not 2 say NE THING but she goes rite up 2 the guy n talks 2 him about and when i asked her y she told...she was all like 'well he doesnt care if i no' i was like omfg! 'ya well i do and u didnt no that he wouldnt care so u talked 2 him about it ne way and didnt even no what he would think!' i jus dont understand....i love her and i never want 2 lose her but bestfriends r suppose 2 be able 2 keep secrects, rite?¿?
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yeah all best friends should but maybe you should do the same thing to her an when she asks why u did it say "well now u know were i am coming from" then again that could b consider as rly childish.. but dont tell a secert thats big.. just something small, ya know? an never give up on tellin her though, how u feel about it, cause best friend dont give up on each otha..ya know? I know what ur goin through cause i have a best friend like that an she is always there for me i just dont tell her much, but i have more then one best friends.. i just dont count on her for that.. i guess thats why your allowed to have more then one best friend. ]
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