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Iv been going /w this girl on and off for a year or two now, and we just got back together recently, things seem like there going ok i guess, She makes me happy everyday from the time i wake up until i fall asleep, but i feel she doesent feel the same about me, I really dont wanna confront her about it cause she has a tendancy to jump to conclusions about what really is going on...and i really dont wanna damage this fragile relationship.. She means more to me then the world.....what should i do??
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the only way that you can try and save your relationship is to confront her.. i mean, what else could you do? and since you said that she has a tendancy to jump conclusions.. tell her to listen to everything that you have to say before she says anything, and then tell her how you feel about your relationship. When you're finished with that, look her straight in the eye and ask her if she wants to be with you (since you said you were having your doubts about that). If she says yes, then try to make it work this time.. no more of this on and off business because that is one of the reasons that the relationship is so fragile. If she says no, someone better will come along and i know that when people get told that, they think it's bull.. but its actually true. You just have to give it a little time... so the next time you two are hanging out, take her into a seperate room to talk about how you're feeling, and then just go from however that ends up. ]
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