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ii`ve been wif this guy fer almost two years.. and i dunno but sometimes i would rather hang out wit him than my friends and i dont kno if that is rite.. like i havent' seen him for a while and i want to see him but my friends had plans already.. and i dunno if its rite or..wrong.. i mean i love my friends to death but its like ive been wif them all summer mostly and now i jus want to spend time wif him.. is that rite? (link)
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dont stress out.. it's fine!!! i mean, if you love someone, then u wanna spend as much time with them as you can. i mean, your friends cant hold you and hug you like he can, and thats what you want to do most of the time.. be with the one you love!! plus, like you said before, you've already spent most of your summer with your friends.. so why not take a little break sometimes and hang out with your boyfriend? i know the saying is, "friends come first" but everyone feels that sometimes they would rather be with their boyfriends at most times. So, spend a little more time with your man, just make sure you still hang out with your friends though, and everything should be fine!
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Iv been going /w this girl on and off for a year or two now, and we just got back together recently, things seem like there going ok i guess, She makes me happy everyday from the time i wake up until i fall asleep, but i feel she doesent feel the same about me, I really dont wanna confront her about it cause she has a tendancy to jump to conclusions about what really is going on...and i really dont wanna damage this fragile relationship.. She means more to me then the world.....what should i do?? (link)
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the only way that you can try and save your relationship is to confront her.. i mean, what else could you do? and since you said that she has a tendancy to jump conclusions.. tell her to listen to everything that you have to say before she says anything, and then tell her how you feel about your relationship. When you're finished with that, look her straight in the eye and ask her if she wants to be with you (since you said you were having your doubts about that). If she says yes, then try to make it work this time.. no more of this on and off business because that is one of the reasons that the relationship is so fragile. If she says no, someone better will come along and i know that when people get told that, they think it's bull.. but its actually true. You just have to give it a little time... so the next time you two are hanging out, take her into a seperate room to talk about how you're feeling, and then just go from however that ends up.
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ok i have 2 bestfriends and when we were in school we always hung out there wasn't a day we wouldnt hang out but now that summer is here they are not really talkin 2 me n when we would go on field trips 1 friend wouldnt talk 2 me and start talkin 2 anotha girl.. is this friendship ment to be? (link)
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well if you think about it.. if the friendship was meant to be, then why aren't they hanging out with you this summer? and why would they (dont take this the wrong way) ignore you and start talking to another person during field trips? maybe you can try and talk to your friends about whats going on.. but one thing that might have happened is that since its summer, you dont see eachother on an every day basis as you normally would, so plan something with them and see how it goes! im pretty sure everything would be better after that,and if not... you'll always make tons of new friends and some certain friends would take the new role as your 'best friend'.. thats just how it is with friends for some odd reason..
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