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more about the friends and drugs...


Question Posted Monday July 26 2004, 2:30 pm

I have a lot of friends that aren't real serious into drugs. They mostly drink and not even that often or that much. It's just that my life has been one huge party for so long that I'm not even sure how to have fun without being at least a little messed up. I'm not hardcore or anything, I keep the rest of my life on track, I have a 3.9 gpa, run varsity track, cross country, and pole vault, and have already been accepted to my varsity academic team. I just don't know how to get out of it when it all feels really natural, and what do I say to my friends when I've been doing this for so long, and how do I convince other people that Im not going to go back to it if they accept me? I mean, I'm only 15, not a virgin, I've done so many drugs I've passed out before, and I'm known to have a temper and get in fights frequently outside of school. If I were a clean cut person I wouldn't want to start hanging out with me.

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ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Monday July 26 2004, 2:54 pm:
Well,hunnie you need to stop bein so down on yourself!!!Look at all your positive qualities!!!You're very intelligent,obviously good at sports and athletics!!I'm proud of ya for that!!! ;) Well,the fact that you say you're not even sure how to have fun w/o the drugs says to me that you may be a little bit addicted.So does the fact that you say you've passed out before,that you have such a bad temper and get into fights.You need to stay away from those drugs!!!!!If you feel that you're strong enough to beat this on your own and quit them,then I'm behind you 100%!!As far as your friends,you shouldn't have to explain anything to them!They should accept and love you for who you are no matter what,reguardless of the drugs!Actually,if they care that much they will encourage you to stay off of drugs for your own health and well-being,not to stay on them so that you're the life of the party!!!!!!!!Tell ya what,IM me on AIM sometime and we'll talk more about this,k? AnGeLbAbY51529 on AIM!! :)

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