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should i tell or not
ive already asked this.. but i need more advice.. well ive been dating my bf for almost 2 years now! WE R COMPLETELY in love..and we're plannin to b together 4ever! the thing is.. is tat my parents dont noe.. my parents said i cant have a bf till i finish skool..and ill finish in 2 years so its not tat long.. my parents noe about him and i just tell them that we are really good friends.. but im scared tat if i tell them they wont let me see him.. wat do i do? should i let them noe the next time they ask or just keep it quiet.. the thing is my bf asks me wen am i gonna tell them n stuff cuz we hardly get to see eachother n hang out.. i meen he understands n he doesnt force me or n e thing.. but i donno wat to do!
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I think you should tell your parents you've been dating.
You never know - their reaction might surprise you. I mean, I was utterly shocked when my mom said "oh - well, not happy about it, but not stopping you" when I told her my boyfriend and I are planning to get an apartment together when we graduate.
Just sit them down calmly and explain to them that you know you weren't supposed to have a boyfriend until you finish high school, but you couldn't help what happened - you fell for this guy, and you've been dating.
Just tell them calmly, and they may surprise you. Parents are disgustingly understanding sometimes. You never know. ^_^
I hope I helped!
-Siren =)
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i think you should tell your parents along with telling them how much you are in love with this guy and if they know how strong your feelings are for him maybeh they'll let it slip xox hope i helped
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tell them
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tell your parents about him, don't mention that its been two years unless they ask, and if they do ask they won't be so heartless as to end a two year relationship. If you say it straight out though you'll just sound rebellious which will make them mad and that never helps. Just say you really love him and think he might be the one. You said it's 2 years til you finish school. I assume that means high school, so your probably between 15-17. Tell your parents that you feel your old enough to make your own decisions, but respect their opinions as well. Tell them that you really can't stop seeing him, but if they want to lay down any guidelines you'll follow them. At least tell them you will, whether or not you do isn't really up to anyone but you.
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Well i think that u shouldnt tell your parents that u are going out. Because if u have been able to keep it a sercet for 2 years i bet u can keep it another 2 years. and you dont no what ur parents would do they might not let u ever see him again. And tell ur b.f that. And good luck with him ;)
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This is a tough question. It's important that you're honest with your parnets. It will make you feel better, them feel better and your bf feel better. Make sure you tell them that you really really love him, and that it would really hurt you if they said that you couldn't see him anymore.
I don't know you're parents, so its really up to you how and when you tell them, but basically, you need to sit down, and talk to them. Parents can seem like a real pain sometimes, but usually they understand. They were your age once too you know.
Best of Luck to you.
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wud u risk everything for him?if so tell your parents but if not keep it quiet till it's the right time.i mean he understands so he shud know that you shouldnt risk that for him....maybe by next year they will have changed their minds & you can tell them then.as long as u tell at the right time.
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