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I've been really close with this guy, for a couple months now..we became best friends, without a doubt..He has a lot of girls that are friends, and that has always sort of pushed me away from gettin close to him, because i keep gettin hurt by him, soon I fell for him, head over heals, without a doubt.. I told him how I felt, he used to feel that way, but he moved on, he likes someone else..he LOVES someone else.. Me and him got into a fight, he was joking around, said something hurtful, I took it offensive.. very offensive.. And I fired back, I cussed him out..And he's the holy type, doesn't believe in swearing, he turned me into that too, but there's only so much I could take. I was sick of being his doormat, I was sick of taking crap from him.. I told him that (with a couple of swear words) ..I lost him for good, It's been a month with no talk, or anything..And he was my everything.. I would have given anything for him to be happy.. And I guess he is, but..im not... he was that guy that would cover me up if i was cold, or if my hair was in my face, he'd brush it to the side, and if i was crying, he was concerned.. I don't know what to do, im nothing without him..For a long time, i thought i wasnt good enough.. and i started throwing up bcuz i thouht i was too fat, but i stopped.. and i was depressed..but i need ur advice
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Well let me say for the record that no guy shoudl ever make you feel self-conscience or depressed. They are jsut guys and there are plenty of them in the sea. BUT i know that love can hurt like HELL! And yes maybe it was good that you kept your distance to avoid getting hurt, but once you fall in love there is NO turning back. The swaring may nto have been the best thing, but it was a mistake and if he doesn't forgive you then it is his loss.
But about the fact that he loves someone else, you can not blame him for that. None of us can control what our heart feels. Just like you fell in love with him...he fell in love with her. Yeah, i know that is NOT the way it was supposed to work out. But eventually he may come around.
For right now though, i say that you work on getting the friendship back. b/c that is the most important thing. Many people will come in and out of your lives, so if you have just one true friend than you are very well off.
And the last thing is that....don't waste any time being self conscience!!! it is A BIG waste. Be yourself and be confident in who you are!!!
Hope I helped.....Alina
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