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need help BAD!!!
ok well this might be long but help PLEASE.... ok well... i met this guy(lets say his name is Brad) online between some frineds.. well Brad ended up moveing very close to me and we begain "talkin" hanging out and we hit it off really well and we dated for about 7 months then i found out that he was makeing out with his best frineds(Brian) girlfriend(Katie)...BROKE MY HEART.. well me and Brad stoped talkin and Brian and Katie stoped takin and Brad and Brian werent so good of friends anymore.... well about a month later i got a call from Brad and it shocked me so much... i never thought that he would have tryed to get back with me.. well we talked our problems out and we started to hanging out again but never "went out" again.... well after like 4 months of us "talkin" and bein a lil more then friends he called me one day after school and he seemed really upset and asked me to go over to his house cause he needed to tell me somthing.. so me still in love with him trying to be here for him cause he doesnt have the best life.. its really hard on him.. i went to his house and he broke the news to me... that he was leaveing that weekend and moveing again.... this of course broke my heart AGAIN...well he moved and hes been gone for about 2 months and i miss him more then ever.... i never really get to talk to him but then do he still tells me he loves me and wants to come back and wants me to go up there and meet his friends.. well school startin in about a month so im trying to get ready for that but i havent been able to sleep at night... AT ALL... and if i do get to sleep then i have dreams about me and him back together or him dieing or us never seening each other again and different stuff.. well the last time i really got to talk to him he told me that he will be able to come down here for x-mas and next summer since he livein back with his mom.. he gets to come to see his dad... i try to talk to him as much as i can but i never seem to and if i do and then his friend r around... i dont know if he really means it or his just trying to be a "pimp" infront of his friends... what do u think???.. this isnt the only problem in my life im haveing right now but its the one thats buggin me the most..... PLEASE PLEASE HELP!
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I'm so sorry it took me awhile to reply back, I was in Vegas!! So sorry!! Okay, to ONE of your problems I will TRY and help you. First of all, I'm sorry you have so many problems in your life, I know how it feels ... if you need to talk about any of them, I'll be glad to help and/or listen to them! Okay, back to your boy problem. I'm really sorry you have to go through the whole breaking the heart situation, it sucks really bad! =( But anyways, since you REALLY love/like this kid, I think you should try talking to him and I understand that he's ALWAYS with his friends or something and trying to be pimp in front of them (I hate when guys do that, bugs me lol), when you do talk to him just be like "Hey, I really need to talk to you about something important, so when you're not in front of your friends or anything can we talk about it?" And then when you two DO get to talk, just be like "I'm not trying to make you feel bad or anything, but you did break my heart and when you moved, it just tore me apart, we barely talk anymore and I really miss you. You still tell me you love me and stuff and I love you too, but I just really want to know how you feel about me. So, please just tell me how you feel and just tell me the truth." Just say something like that and just tell him how you feel about him and see if you two could hook up and try to work a long distance relationship or something. But, first just talk to him about how you feel about him and see how he feels about you too. I hope this helps and if it doesn't just leave a message in my inbox! Good luck hun!
xoxo Kourtney
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