well I'm in love with a guy who is actually my friend ( but im strong/bff with his sister for 7 yrs) and I just feel strange because he's a friend of mine, but I really really like him as boyfriend material, we have alot in common i guess ( but i have more in common with his sister :D)I don't know what to do :(
Okay I am speaking from experience...I had a big crush on one of my friends and I flirted with him alot and he flirted with me a little too and over the summer he asked me out...
BritNeenIcOle answered Saturday July 24 2004, 12:18 pm: If i was in your shoes i would talk to his sister you know shes got the dirt try to get something out of her, expecially if you have alot in common there might be a furture for u two
Just_Being_True answered Saturday July 24 2004, 9:18 am: Can i just say for the record this is a difficult postion to be in, but once you figure it out it is wonderful!
If you love someone then you shoudlnt' let other people affect your relationship. Whether it is your friends or family...or his family. Don't let it affect you. There are many benifits to being close to his sister. B/c i assume that it means you are close to his family, which causes things to be easier if you break up b/c things will still be normal with everyone else around the two of you.
But if you do break up, it will be full of hurt. i have to warn you that your friendship will never be the same, b/c there will always be romantic feelings there.
But I know exactly where you are coming from. And the relationships are always really great, and it's nice to be with someone you can trust and that you care about.
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