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my bff is turnin into an enemy
okay so goin into middle school ppl warn you not to fall in with the wrong croud well in the 6th grade i met my bff we'll call her angie and we were both very innocent and sweet. well goin into 7th grade things started to change she wouldn't talk to me as much and we started gettin bfs and like choosing them over our friendship and we were kinda falling apart but everytime we would get into a fight or w/e i would always just give up and let her b right b/c i knew that she was my closest friend and i needed her. we promised eachother we would tell eachother everything well opne day i got to school and my other friend confronts me saysing that angie was smoking pot and that she had sex and tellin me all this stuff that i didn't wanna hear! well so i asked angie about it and she told me that it was all tru but she was gonna quit smokin and that she regreted everything about having sex and so then you knoe we were friends again but ive noticed that ever since ive been hangin out wit her this year shes been lying to me and i think that she is starting to rub off on me. like guys r offering me sex and im actually thinkg about it! i mean the old me would have totally said YEA RIGHT NEVER!
i think that she is turning into everything my parents warned me about! but i don't wanna lose her cuz she is my bff and if shes isn't there for me then i don't knoe whose sholder to cry on and who to tell all my secrets to and i have no one to go to parties with and to shop with! so please help me soon!
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Okay...friends do grow apart...theres always two roads...the right road and the wrong road...ur friends takin the wrong road and believe me you done wanna take that one...I think you should tell ur friend she needs to stop doin all the things she shouldn't be doin and if she doesn't then u guys shouldn't be friends...I mean if she's ur BESTEST friend and she regretted doin all that stuff then she'd stop before u start to get on the wrong road...I hope I helped.. if you have any more probs at all just email me or write me a question....
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*~tasha~*
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Okay...friends do grow apart...theres always two roads...the right road and the wrong road...ur friends takin the wrong road and believe me you done wanna take that one...I think you should tell ur friend she needs to stop doin all the things she shouldn't be doin and if she doesn't then u guys shouldn't be friends...I mean if she's ur BESTEST friend and she regretted doin all that stuff then she'd stop before u start to get on the wrong road...I hope I helped.. if you have any more probs at all just email me or write me a question....
*much love*
*~tasha~*
*please rate me good!THANKS!!!
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dear bff is turnin,
my best friend is the same way. everyone says that she's no good for me and that im changin. but she's my best friend and everything and that i couldn't make it without her. well i hang around her group of friends and they are the druggies. or whatever. i just am not like them. i do stuff my own way. so wat you need to do is you can still hang with her but you need to tell her that you are not going to be her. that you are your own person and that you aren't going to have sex. and stuff like that.
but just remember that you have to live with the consequences of sex not the guy. if you know what i mean. so if you are considering sex, talk to your mom or a trusted adult and get some birthcontrol. condoms don't erase the chance it just helps reduce the chance of pregnancy. so just be careful!!! *~~~shana~~~*
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