heyy i really like this kid i met a couple of weeks ago, he's really cute and has an awesome personality.... but i kno that he would never be any farther then friends cuz he's a lot older then me. he's 18, and im 14! but i still don't kno wat to do cuz i really like him and i jsut can't get over him! so i wanna find a way for him to notice me a little more. and he doesn't have a girlfriend either. he's really sweet! wat should i do?? Please help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? DixieDarlin04 answered Wednesday July 14 2004, 4:05 am: Hey, well I know how u feel, one of my ex's was 18 and I was 14, Im 16 now, but at the time it was a big difference, plus u have to think about what would ur parents say, I lied to my mom and told her that he was 16(which didnt help whenshe found out how old he was) she hated him, and when hes 18 and ur 14 ur parents have ALL rights to press charges b*cuz he is a Legal Adult, even tho this guy is really sweet, u need to think about what could happen if some one was to find out and not like the fact of the age defference and decide to call the cops?!? just think bout those things then ask ur self if u really wanna be w. him and risk the chance in him getting in trouble. [ DixieDarlin04's advice column | Ask DixieDarlin04 A Question ]
Ashley answered Monday July 12 2004, 7:32 pm: I know this is a huge age difference. Well at times age is just a number. You shouldn't give up because of that. Also "THINK" he doesn't have a g/f. So tell him how you feel. [ Ashley's advice column | Ask Ashley A Question ]
united_python_cheerleader answered Monday July 12 2004, 7:03 pm: You should go for it 4 years isnt a big diffrence and i think he would go out with you
italianxbaybii answered Monday July 12 2004, 6:22 pm: hey! omg i have the same problem its the age difference don't worry about it tho! really !! i got likes you for you not for your age people get married and date in big age differences 3 -4 years i know wat ur goin threw u wanna try to get him off your mind but its not possible u like him way to much well just go for it only compltete idiots don't go for who you really are !! x0ox ! [ italianxbaybii's advice column | Ask italianxbaybii A Question ]
o0psychicwish0o answered Monday July 12 2004, 6:13 pm: Hes to old for you. Its okay to like him and be friends but dont take it to far. I would just go up and talk to him and its okay to flirt. But dont tell him or he will avoid you..
--JUlie [ o0psychicwish0o's advice column | Ask o0psychicwish0o A Question ]
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Monday July 12 2004, 6:05 pm: Hey! Age its just a number so don't worry about that. Don't say you don't have a chance with him because you never know you might have a chance!! But you just have to talk to him first and find out. But first of all you have to be yourself, don't be someone you're not. Do you have his number, e-mail address, AIM/AOL screen name? If you do try contacting him by that. And just getting to know him better and then meet up with him some where. First get to know him better and if you still like what you see, then eventually tell him you like him or maybe he'll even tell you he likes you!! Good luck! Try contacting him somehow!! =P
Roxybabii922 answered Monday July 12 2004, 5:49 pm: I used to go out with an 18 year old, just be yourself... Age doesn't really matter if you think it could be love or something... Just ask him how he feels about you and you tell him how you feel about him... [ Roxybabii922's advice column | Ask Roxybabii922 A Question ]
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