hmm...okay ..lets see...well ever since me and my ex broke up ..talking to him has been a little different...actually alot different..he's just not the way he was...i mean i'm not looking to hook up with him again..i just wanna stay friends..but when we talk we always seem to fight over something..he says that i'm the one that change...but i dunno..i think i'm the same person...i just don't see why he always hurts me when we talk..i mean he says he wants to be friends too...but friends don't make u cry ...i dunno what to do? ...should i stop talking to him and lose a friendship ? or keep trying to be his friend...but end up getting hurt all the time?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xcutesyallyx answered Tuesday July 6 2004, 1:12 am: Well..first off..you should try talking to him. Tell him that the things he says to you sometimes hurt you, and that you'd like to see if yall can start over on fresh ground. Tell him that you dont think you've changed, but if he does think that..ask him to tell you what he thinks has changed about you. then if what he says makes sense..explain to him why you changed..or tell him ur sorry for the change. but if what he says doesnt make sense..try to explain to him that he's mistaken and that you havent changed. guys are dum! heh..but eventually he'll understand. i say you continue to say hello to him after you have talked to him about this..jsut act like you usually do and if problems persist then maybe yall arent meant to be friends..and you'l be better off without him! if this doesnt help..ask me again..and maybe i can think about it more for you! im always here! love always..ally! [ xcutesyallyx's advice column | Ask xcutesyallyx A Question ]
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