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The First Move-- we're just plain STUCK!
I'm 16 & i admit, im currently head over heels with my best guy friend. He's loyal, truthful, funny, sweet, intelligent, gives me attention, flirts with me, & he's luckily single (actually-- neither of us have ever had a significant other.. which would suprise lots of people because -not to sound concieted- we're well liked & just plain good people.. and he for one is a GOOD catch) Anyways, we're kind of stuck in a rut. I am almost positive that he likes me, and i definately like him. Maybe like isnt even the word.. cause its stronger than that. But neither of us will make the first move. I know for a fact that both of us have gone through a situation where we do try to make the first move with another person & it ends up in crap. So im afraid we're both too scared to take the initiative. I'm trying to ease my way into it.. taking baby steps & making subtle comments & trying to make him comfortable to make the first move himself. Any of you ever been in a situation like this?? Please help me.. i dont want to lose him & regret not taking my chance!! :o\ <33
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I SAY TAKE A CHANCE! Youre young! Youre in love! and you only live once!! I bet he feels the same way about you so why not go for it!~ Be open to him and he'll feel comfortable being open with you too! And if it all works out You will be SO happy that u went for it! GOOD LUCK!!! plz rate me
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tell him exactly how you feel!! thats the only way it will get somewhere...after you tell him then he should feel more comfortable about making the first move! but if not..(and you find out that he does like u) then just step up and make the 1st move cause maybe he's just too shy! =)
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I think this quote will help ya out.. it always helps me out ;)
"Look, I guarantee that we'll have tough times. And I guarantee that at some point one or both of us will want to get out of this thing. But I also guarantee that if I don't ask you to be mine I'll regret it for the rest of my life. Because I know in my heart, you're the only one for me" ---Runaway Bride---
you only live once.. why not take a chance and if it doesn't click be friends again! rate me plz :D
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