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-nOt goOd enuf
well in my family im the baby and all my life ive been the one who doesnt fit in.. i get along with like one member of my family REALLY well (( one of my sisters )) but she lives in cali so that doesnt help any.. most of hte time i live with my mom stepdad my other sister and i visit my dad.. and ever since i was lil ive alwayz been told ima brat and not gud enuf nor will i ever be.. my family (( especially my mom stepdad and sis )) has alwayz picked on me and alwayz try to find something wrong in everything i do.. its caused a lot of stress and hurt for me but i alwayz thought every kid went thru this cuz its all i knew until recently when i finally told my friends wut i go thru at home.. they say that it isnt normal the way im treated but that i shudnt listen to em cuz im such a gud person and i make gud grades and i dont lie to them or do drugs or am some slut.. ive tried talking to my family and letting them know how much they hurt me but they tell me that i just need to suck it up and stop bein such a big baby..my friends have said my family is messed up cuz they say that but idk i just cant help but let it get to me.. it bothers me that i cant make em proud cause i just want them to for once say they are happy with wut ive done.. please help me find a way that i can make them proud :/
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i have the same problem my sister is very smart and athletic and i am not. i get bad grade acorrding to my mom. {{if they not as high as my sisters then they are low}} I was in sports like cheerleading and softball but i was always inelidgble but my mom never helped me and whe i got the # for a tutor, nt nom just hung the # on the fidge and we never call thiswas a year ago. Ifn fact i think it is still upthere. All my mom does is care about ashley. she has to be perfect and she isant.! just try doing som,ething that will get them to notice you like sports good crades join a club make a diffrence get a job and show them how respondsible you are!
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You asked the wrong question. "What can you do to make yourself proud." Is the right one. I know what you are thinking. That is so lame. But...it really isn't. As I see it here (from the sitituaion you've just described) doesn't look like it's going to get any better. So you have to take control of yourself, and realize this. You have to be your own person. Once again, I know this sounds lame. But it's so true. You can't sit here and say your parents screwed you over, and never supported you, or your decisions. Because at the end of the day, you don't have them. You are left with yourself. I'm not saying anything your parents say or do to you is right, because it isn't. And I'm not saying I wouldn't want to smack them either. But happiness is a state of being, a way of mind. You make your own happiness. Surround yourself with people who DO care about you, and DO support you, and that love you for who you are. Don't you dare try and make your parents proud. Kids try and do that all the time, and it's this neverending cycle of doing things you don't want to do to please other people. You have to please yourself. I mean this with my entire heart, because I know what you're going through. Don't listen to what others think say or do. Do what you want. Say what you want. And think whatever you want. Because it's not their life. It's yours. Deal with the hand you've been given. And enjoy it.
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