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howdy pink giggles. wow this is really difficult for me to take and i trust u to understand and help me with this dilemma. u see, my twin brother has always been there, loving, caring, and overly great. however, about a month ago i went out with a couple frends and we saw my brother in one of my skirts, with a wig on and eating lunch with a man... my twin.. is a crossdresser. i didn't believe it and denied it until the other day when i saw that same man come and pick up my brother at our shared house. so it WAS him!! i dont know what to do. should i say anything to my parents? the last time i told my brother he seemed gay as a joke he began to cry and told me that he was going to go run away to the desert and never talk to me again. hmm. what shud i do?
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Wow! Very tough question. I completely understand. I am a twin myself. I know you love your brother very much so his crossdressing I am sure is confusing to understand. Crossdressing may be a way to just express his feminine side. I know it is still kind of hard ot understand. With the fact of him being gay... talk to him about it. Try to understand and get his viewpoint. Try not to make judgements and just listen. It is very hard for gay peopel to ocme out because of the fear of judgement. Especially form family. I would talk to your brother first and than maybe you two can work out a way to tell your parents. Just talk to your brother and listen to him. He will give you all the answers you need. Also, just because he tells you his viewpoints doesn't mean you will understand right away but it will definetly help to talk to him. Witht ime you will have to accept his sexuality. I hope everything works out. Thanx for the question. Hugs n kiss*s xoxo *Summer ]
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