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break ups
hi, my name is dakota and im about to turn 14 years old and im a female. well me and my boyfriend, jake, went out for almost 4 months and around our 3 month anniversary...i started to like my ex-boyfriend, brandon. Well brandon and jake dont get along in the first place. and theres this girl that claims to be my friend, lindsey. and she heard i liked brandon so she went and blabbed to my boyfriend!! well he wrote me a note asking me what was going on because hes was in 9th grade(highschool) and i was in 8th grade (junior high) and then we talked about it that night on the phone and i told him i didnt like brandon anymore...and i believed i didnt. well then later on, i decided i still did. so i told my friend i was thinking of breaking up with him and jakes best friend overheard me. and that night he went over jakes and told him. jake got mad and we decided to take a break. i was ready to call him one night and tell him how i still really liked him and wanted us to go back out, thats what he wanted too..or so i thought. that night i got home from gymnastics and jake tells me he likes lindsey. so now its been over a month since hes liked lindsey (but she doesnt like him at all) and i still cant get over him. theres about 4 or 5 other guys that like me but i only want jake. and all the other guys are sooo cute, especially this one kid jordan but i dont want to go out with him because i like jake so much. jake doesnt like me at all though, he said he wouldnt go out with me for awhile but i dont know what to do...my birthday is coming up and i was thinking about having a few people over and inviting him but he might find it weird..i dont know please tell me what you think i should do. and one more question...jordan, the really cute kid, is a year younger but wants to go out. but this upcoming year i will be in highschool and he will be in junior high still. me and jake worked through it but i think its different when the guy is younger... please give me advice. if there are any guys out there, tell me what i can do to get jake to like me again. thank you sooo much!!
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What I don't understand is how you can say that you still like Brandon and then be worried about your age? Personally, I think if you like him, then age doesn't matter. When I was in 8th grade, I dated a guy a year younger than me and I didn't mind and neither did the people I hung out with. If you like Jake as much as you say you do, than you must not like Brandon as much as you say you do. I think you need to think about this long and hard. Make a list of the things you like and dislike about each guy. If you already know which one you like more, then don't even question the other guy being a possibility. Good luck!
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First of all i want to tell you that age is just a number, and it shouldn't matter what age or grade you are in if you like someone and want to make it work. It shouldn't matter what people think. Second of all you kind of did get yourself inot this jam by being so confused. While you were with Jake, you didn't know if you still liked Brandon, and then once you lost Jake, you realized how much you really only wanted him. But now it is too late. You probably had jake so confused that now he probably thinks that being in a relationship with you will turn out to be a mess, so now he lost his intrest in you. And unfortunately he likes your friend lindsay, who isn't interested. Gosh! What a mess. My advice is that once a boy sayd he doesn't like you, don't chase after him, it makes you look desperate. maybe he will come around, but you are young, don't spend your life waiting for him. I guarentee you you will fall in love a million times before you really find the right one. Right now, I think you should take some time for you to get over Jake and get yourself together. And then you can take advantage of the fact that all those other boys like you and explore your options. Good luck! :)
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